I haven’t been keeping up much with my experience this year in the KAC league, except for the occasional post on Twitter that I’m either on my way to practice or a game. It’s not that I don’t have anything to say, there’s so much going on in my mind that I could write a series of novels! But, it’s more of time and finding it – if anyone has seen it – please comment and let me know where it is.
Let me rewind to the beginning of the season. I was notified of the players on my team in the Kahala McDonald’s late on a Monday evening and by dinner time Tuesday I had visited every athlete on the roster at their home, personally welcoming them to our team with a personalized gift, (Lilinoe, my rock solid for life and team parent had made these very cute and appropriate luggage name tags with the girls’ name over a basketball court background), and a welcome letter which could also be dubbed as a “season syllabus.”
“Today is a great moment in both of our lives, as some great force has allowed for the paths of our lives to cross! Our philosophy is that basketball is only but a vessel to convey lessons of life: determination, perseverance, team work, loyalty, discipline, commitment, respect…and if we happen to win a few games along the way, then even better! In order to accomplish these goals, we will need your commitment to be present physically, mentally and emotionally for all practices and games, as we will do the same. Every person has a purpose on this team, and your role is not limited to your time on the court. Rather, it is more important as to how you conduct yourself in school, at home, on the bench, with your family, amongst your friends and in the community.”
With the guidance and expertise of my Dad, we conducted two weeks of Basketball Camp over Spring Break. The morning workouts were beneficial, but the afternoon camaraderie were essential. After each practice, both Kumu and I aimed to create a comfortable safety zone for the girls. We knew that as children, once they felt safe, once they felt welcomed and loved; they would be more receptive to the basketball skills we would be teaching them.
“When we work together, no one can stop us!”
Fast forward to this afternoon – our team of athletes are excelling far beyond their individual capabilities. We were assigned the team name, Sparks after the WNBA Los Angeles Sparks; but we’re a team of culture – we are UILA. And, after three games UILA is undefeated.
I am grateful for the players that have come into my life, and proud of their accomplishments.
